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Its P4M's 1st Anniversary Month!!!

May is our Anniversary month and we are Celebrating ALL month!!  

Pleasure4theMoment is a private membership club.

If you have NOT purchased a 6mo or 12 mo. for a P4M Membership, you are only a SITE Member and are not eligible for discounts.  If you are a site member, the purchase of your ticket will give you a Day Pass for THAT Day ONLY.

Upcoming Events

Attending Events

  1. Find the Event or Events that interest you.

  2. Decide if a P4M membership meets your needs.

    • P4M members tickets are FREE most P4M Sun-Thurs* events.

    • $25 discount on featured events, Fridays and Saturdays.

  3. If you do not have a paid P4M membership your ticket will include a day pass for that event only.​

  4. Most tickets for Events have tiered pricing.:​

    • Early Bird ($)

    • Pre-Registered ($$)

    • Day of/Unregistered ($$$)

    • After 8pm Day Of ($$$$)​​​

  5. Tickets can be purchased using Debi/Credit Card. Your statement will be from MMP4M, LLC.

  6. Once tickets are purchased you will receive a 2nd email with the address and location.​

    • If you are invited by a P4M member or arrive with a registered guest, you will be required to register before you can enter Secret Diversion Social Club.

  7. If there is not an event on the website, then it is a private event and not opened to the public. 

    • If you are unable to purchase a ticket on or link to the event details on the website, it is not an event you can attend.

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Chaisin' Tail

Ladies wear your Cotton Tails and Bunny Ears and Gents show off your Smoking Jackets and Ascots.


What is a group of bunnies missing?????


Cotton Candy Jell-O Shots all night! ​Best Bunny Contest, Best Couple Contest!

New throwback ice breaker (hint-brush up on your Hugh Hefner trivia)

WHEN: March 27, 2021
WHERE: Arlington, VA
WHO: Couples, Single Females and limited Single Males, Newbies are welcome!​


BYOB, BYOC, Lite Appetizers

P4M Discount Eligible (20%) TEXT P4M (membership will be verified)

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This is an evening of sensual erotica, captivating awareness with a night of dirty words and naughty intentions. Our poets will touch the inner temptress or tempter that is waiting to get out. We have NeoSoul spinning, dancers interacting together with the Poets, light buffet and much more.  Wilez, DANK & PAINT will paint an interpretive painting from this evenings readings.  P4M will auction off a Wilez Original, prepping you for the next event featuring Couples Body Painting with DANK & PAINT.


For this Event doors open at 8:30PM and to show respect to the Poets, doors will close at 9:30PM. Come early and enjoy the light buffet.  We will have live entertainment all evening by the Compound's Pole Artist. P4M Member Discounts are Available!


Not ready to go home after the show?  After Party tickets are available and starts at 11:15PM.  TEXT "AFTERPARTY" to 202-599-7107or go to and get  a package for an entire evening.  

Some Featured Past Events


Messieurs Enchères is a night for Single Bidding Females and the Females of Bidding Couples to compete for some of the most sexy, tasty and sensual men!


Ladies these men are the most appealing to the eyes, nose and mouth that “Funny Money” can buy in the DMV.  Come join one of the most tantalizing ice breakers to ever break out of the Covid Fog! What would you do with your 15 min?

ALL are expected to Dress to impress, no jeans with tears in them, no sneakers, men must have a collar shirt.  If you are chosen to be one of the Messieurs, you will be expected to dress as the flyer shows.

We will be following all COVID-19 protocols, to include temperature checks at the door.

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April Showers

Evening exploring the World of Collars, Toys and Restraints. Our Ice Breaker tonight will be Master Mahogany taking you through the "Ropes" of the BDSM. Afterwards he will hold private Sessions for Couples and Single females. 

Bring your Collars, Toys and Restraints...use them on the one you brought or the others. 


Post Valentines Day Interracial Event

Ladies Break Out Your Red Heels & Panties!! There is a Post Valentines gift for everyone that does!!

Calling ALL BBC's for this HOT and SEXY Interracial Event. Get your reservations before it's too late. 


Biscuits & Babes

Pleasure4theMoment presents Biscuits & Babes. Food and snacks served and a menu provided by The High's & Hello's Co. 


Chaisin' Tail

Ladies wear your Cotton Tails and Bunny Ears and Gents show off your Smoking Jackets and Ascots. Cotton Candy Jello Shots all night! BDSM Room with Private Instructions Available - Sign Up at the Event!!


Sax & Stiletto's

Vanilla Meet & Greet with Live Jazz from the Clifford Brown Project. Everyone is welcome. RSVP today to reserve your table. 


So You Want to Be a Pornstar?

Create your own Porn Video or Photo Shoot. Role Play is STRONGLY PROMOTED. Text "PORNSTAR" to 863-944-0260 if you are interested in being a Photographer, Videographer or Porn Star

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CHANGE OF DATE!!! Event Date is NOW 2/20/21 


Pleasure4theMoment is delivering Hot Sexiness to Couples, Single Females and Select Single Males on 2/20/21 and we are doing it BIG at  Private HOUSE, in Waldorf, MD.


Our House DJ Smooth will be spinning sultry smooth music, Theatrelife  will be giving demo’s of electric play w/ Violet Wand, in the Dungeon.


Served buffet, BYOB with all ice and mix


Contest for the Sexist Couple, Tempting Single Male & Seductive Single Female.

Vente Aux Enchères Masculine

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After an  evening of sensual erotica, captivating awareness with a night of dirty words and naughty intentions. Immediately following the Erotic Poetry, keep the night going with the Debauchery at the Compound After Party!!!  You MUST have a wristband to enter the Debauchery.


For this Event entry is at 11:15 PM P4M Member Discounts are Available!


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