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About us


Who We Are

PLEASURE4THEMOMENT is an alternative lifestyle group for upscale adults who've always desired to have a sexual encounter with consenting adults of all ages, body types, genders and ethnicities.

PLEASURE4THEMOMENT offers a safe environment to indulge in all your secret fantasies with mutual consent.  Our venue is Secret Diversion home of the Red Door Lounge.  Our social club offers activities that promote participation within whatever genre you practice.  We welcome Lifestyle Swing participants, BDSM families and most KINK communities.  We draw a hard line at scat, blood and activities that are not legal in the Vanilla society. With proper presentation we will consider kinks that we have not yet had an opportunity to be educated on yet.  

While our atmosphere is sexy, sensual positive, we encourage participants to live out the lifestyle of their choosing with respectful, mutual consent.  ALL activities within the party are by expressed consent only, NO MEANS NO. You will never be pressured or expected to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.  Aggressive, unwanted coercion and rude behavior will not be tolerated.

Your privacy is highly valued and treated with the utmost respect.  P4M is not associated with any of organization and will not release your information to anyone. 


To respect our guest, we also ask that all cell phones are kept in your purse or pocket in the Common areas, and NOT ALLOWED AT ALL in the "Play" areas.

We ask that everyone read our Rules & Regulations along with our new Club Rules | Pleasure4TheMoment.

We are one of the few membership groups that welcome select single males in addition to couples and single ladies, striving for a balanced atmosphere.

Our Story

We love that people can be open and express their sexuality freely. During our early years in the lifestyle, we came across too many mismanaged locations and unsafe groups. So, we feel obligated to provide a safe, clean and discreet place for celebrating the various Kink, Fetish and BDSM Community traditions where persons of quality get together to share like-minded experiences.


Our PARTY MASTER works with other group leaders, services and organizes with people in the community lifestyle.  We update our website to share the multitude of possibilities, helping you create the ultimate experience of non-monogamous behavior, engaging in recreational or social activities.  If you like upscale people and venues, then join our group.


Offering Lifestyle parties, Special Events, Munches, Educational seminars at our new event house, Secret Diversions.  Offering a membership providing an inspired environment for managed events, planned fantasies and additional services.  Go to My Bookings and select "Our Services" to get started with your own one-of-a-kind, exquisite adventure. We always are excited to meet and mingle with people in the lifestyle.

Our Queen & Event Master

We all have a kink; mine is a Trifecta. Some call me Mistress Michelle, (my subs/slaves). Care to interview? Sign up on the Event Page!


Others call me the Party Master; becomes I am passionate about other peoples fantasies helping to create your next event, munch, infused Dinner Party and Educational sessions.  

Let me help inspire your imagination to run wild; go to My Bookings and select "Our Services" to get started with your own, one-of-a-kind, exquisite adventure.

I'm a Libra, who brings creativity, balance and eroticism to the lifestyle.  I'm open and honest and always blunt. Tact is not my strong suit. I am what I am.


The erotic side of my Zodiac introduces me as passionate, caring, loving and sweet, seductive and erotic. Classy, intelligent, charismatic, and mysterious.

Mr. Marcel - Daddy, Alpha & Dungeon Master

I am a Daddy, an Alpha male living as a Dominant and Master of my kink. I am a practicing primal educator into the BDSM, swing & fetish lifestyle. As I evolve in my world, I practice structure and accountability leading by example. 

I indulge, usually, in smaller, familiar groups and roles of willing dedicated play partners, providing education to others with my dominance and care. I work to create an open dialogue, encourage people to indulge in their fantasies and release their fetishes, asking each participant to channel their fears and open their mind to me and explore their deep dark fantasies.

As the Dungeon Master, I enjoy providing pop-up impact sessions for groups, couples and individual females, exploring the world of kinks, toys and pushing limitations through BDSM.

Pop-Up Dungeon is orchestrated with Me and my submissive, the gorgeous Mystify M, demonstrating the art of impact and BDSM.


The Impact Room goal is to create light play and show a demonstration with the toys provided. We'll have a discussion of the concepts of our dynamics on being a Dom, having subs and offering advice on creating your own intimate space for this type of play. 

You can find us at a Pleasure4theMoment Event with Mistress Michelle, or contact us here. 

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