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Member Information
Beloved Volunteers

Secret Diversion is a Member Only, on-sight alternative lifestyle venue for upscale adults who've always desired a judge-free environment with consenting adults 21 & over, body types, genders and ethnicity.  

The Red Door Lounge is onsite at the Secret Diversion.  The Red Door Lounge is the LARGEST GLORY HOLE IN THE DMV (D.C., Maryland & Virginia)!  We have 10 Male Glory holes and 1 Female Glory hole for your enjoyment! There are two additional lounge areas in the Red Door Lounge along with BDSM equipment for your use and enjoyment.

To successfully present Secret Diversion home of the Red Door Lounge, we need our P4M Ambassadors.  Ambassadors are volunteers with "gift" incentives.  If you would like to be interviewed to become a P4M Ambassador text "HELP" to Mistress Michelle at 202-599-7107 or Ser Norman at 424-386-9866



Member Section

Pleasure4theMoment is a private Membership group, socially safe environment for all ethnicity, race, genders, and sexual orientation. We entertain people who are interested in QUALITY not QUANTITY. Mature, like minded people in the Lifestyle are encouraged to join P4M. 

As a Private Membership group we pledge to review members for events. Membership  allows us to approve our services to our guests, offer specific events and new amenities.

After your membership fee is paid and you have been approved, you will receive a P4M bracelet and welcome bag.   Sunday - Thursday P4M members will register for P4M events and are FREE to members, unless it is a special event.  P4M member discounts will apply for special events and Friday/Saturday P4M events.  When another group sponsors an event at Secret Diversion, the Social Space will be unavailable for P4M discounts.

We strongly encourage vaccination and a Covid-19 test before you attend an Event. 

How to become a P4M Member

  1. Log In and fill out a 2022 Membership Form starting for June 2022

  2. 2022 Membership Form is reviewed by a P4M Member

    • Your profile is Marked Pending

  3. Register for a Pleasure4theMoment Event discounted yearly Membership dues in June 2022.

  4. You are now officially a Member of P4M.

  5. You are available to start receiving the below Member Benefits.

Daily Memberships are marked Pending until Membership Dues are paid.

  • Membership Benefits do not apply in Pending Status


Annual Membership Benefits:

  • A P4M membership Bracelet will be distributed and must be wore at all times while on premise at Secret Diversion and/or the Red Door Lounge.

  • Social Space will be posted for ALL P4M events under Upcoming Event

    • Water, Ice, drink mixers

    • Themed Food

    • Attendee available on sight, also bartender (tip appropriately)

    • WI-FI

    • Smart TVs with Premium channels

    • Alexia

    • Parking

  • P4M Members receive first notification of all upcoming event.

  • Discount on P4M Events for the year

  • 10% Discount on Event Services

  • Allowed guest with purchase of daily membership pass.


2022 Membership Dues 

  • Poly Family (up to 5 people)       $275 for the year

  • Couple (Male/Female)                 $175 for the year

  • Single Male (he/him)                    $200 for the year

  • Single Female (she/her)               $50 for the year

2022 Single Event Membership Pass 

As a member of P4M, you can have 1 guest attend an event or accompany you to a P4M event. They must pay a daily membership and its only good for a single event or entry. 

Single Event Pass + suggested donation of the Event 

Guest Member passes are for one use only, which is the night of the Event. 

  • Couple (Male/Female)       $50 +event fee

  • Single Male                         $50 +event fee

  • Single Female                     $25 +event fee

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P4M's Beloved Volunteers

P4M's Beloved Volunteers are the backbone of our success.

What is in it for you?

  • As a Beloved Volunteer, you will receive a P4M Badge on the website. 

  • You will work 2 hours on and 2 hours off; so you can enjoy the Event as well.

  • You will wear a P4M armband.


Types of Volunteers needed

  • Housekeeping

  • Bartenders (Tips)

  • Parking Attendants

  • Event Monitors (Security)

  • P4M Members Attendee

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