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Member Information
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Secret Diversion is an on-sight alternative lifestyle social club & venue for upscale adults who've always desired a judge-free environment with consenting adults 21 & over, body types, genders and ethnicity.  

The Red Door Lounge is the LARGEST GLORY HOLE IN THE DMV (D.C., Maryland & Virginia)!  We have 10 Male Glory holes and 1 Female Glory hole for your enjoyment! There are two additional lounge areas in the Red Door Lounge along with BDSM equipment for your use and enjoyment.

To successfully present Secret Diversion home of the Red Door Lounge, we need our P4M Ambassadors.  If you would like to be interviewed to become a P4M Ambassador text "HELP" to Mistress Michelle at 202-599-7107 or 424-386-9866



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Pleasure4theMoment is a private group, socially safe environment for all ethnicity, race, genders, and sexual orientation. We entertain people who are interested in QUALITY not QUANTITY. Mature, likeminded people in the Lifestyle are encouraged to join P4M. 

As a private membership group, we pledge to review members for events. Membership allows us to approve our services to our guests, offer specific events and new amenities.

After your membership fee is paid and you have been approved, you will receive a P4M bracelet.  You are required to still register for every event you want to attend, there are Coupon codes to offset your discount.  These codes can be found on our telegraph site or contact 202-599-7107.


P4M member discounts will apply for special events and Friday/Saturday P4M events. 


When another group sponsors an event at Secret Diversion, the Social Space will be unavailable for P4M discounts.

We strongly encourage vaccinations, Covid-19 and STD Screening before you attend an Event. 

How to become a P4M Member

  1. Log In and fill out a Membership Form 

  2. Membership Form is reviewed by a P4M Member

    • Your profile is Marked Pending

  3. You are now officially a Member of P4M.

  4. You are available to start receiving the below Member Benefits.

Daily Memberships are marked Pending until Membership Dues are paid.

  • Membership Benefits do not apply in Pending Status


Annual Membership Benefits:

  • A P4M membership Bracelet will be distributed and must be wore at all times while on premise at Secret Diversion and/or the Red Door Lounge.

  • Social Space will be posted for ALL P4M events under Upcoming Event

    • Water, Ice, drink mixers

    • Themed Food

    • Attendee available on sight, also bartender (tip appropriately)

    • WI-FI

    • Smart TVs with Premium channels

    • Alexia

    • Parking

  • P4M Members receive first notification of all upcoming event.

  • Discount on P4M Events for the year

  • 10% Discount on Event Services

  • Allowed guest with purchase of daily membership pass.



P4M's Ambassador's

P4M's Ambassador's are the backbone of our success.

What is in it for you?

  • As an Ambassador, you will receive a P4M  Ambassador t-shirt

  • Shifts start 1/2 hour before Open and a 1/2 hour after closing. 

  • During your shift you will perform the following task:

    • Housekeeping

    • Food Prep and presentation

    • Parking Attendants

    • Event Monitors (Security)

    • Event Check-ins

    • Secret Diversion Tours

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